Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Please provide exercises

Magnatolia

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Hi All,

I want to build my confidence up with starting cold conversations with girls I see in public. Does anyone know of any exercises they can either list or provide a link to? Kind of like what is on offer with the bootcamps.

Thanks
Jason
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i don't know of any links or notting....

if your confidence is that low, one thing that helps is to start talking to paid staff, they are paid to be there, they have no choice, and it give you lots of practice talking to strangers.
 

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I find it really hard to know what to say. I know you're not supposed to think about what you're saying/going to say.

What would really help me is transcripts of real conversations that people have, not just the convo but also how they handled themselves, what they noticed (ie. reactions of girl, etc) and what they did/didn't do beforehand.

I think this would really help not just me but everyone who has similar problems. Being able to see and hear (some audio/video convo's would be good).

Thanks
J
 
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