"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Please provide exercises

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Hi All,

I want to build my confidence up with starting cold conversations with girls I see in public. Does anyone know of any exercises they can either list or provide a link to? Kind of like what is on offer with the bootcamps.

Thanks
Jason
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i don't know of any links or notting....

if your confidence is that low, one thing that helps is to start talking to paid staff, they are paid to be there, they have no choice, and it give you lots of practice talking to strangers.
 
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I find it really hard to know what to say. I know you're not supposed to think about what you're saying/going to say.

What would really help me is transcripts of real conversations that people have, not just the convo but also how they handled themselves, what they noticed (ie. reactions of girl, etc) and what they did/didn't do beforehand.

I think this would really help not just me but everyone who has similar problems. Being able to see and hear (some audio/video convo's would be good).

Thanks
J
 
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