"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Please People With Experience Why Is It That?

Bvbidd

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Showing little interest, activing distant, making fun, teasing, all make a women attracted because they want what they can not have but showing sexual interest still makes a women attracted?

WRONG FORUM SUPPOSED TO BE IN GENERAL.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You show sexual interest first, so she knows who you are, then you tease, ignore, play games, etc.
 

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Yeah but isn't that sexual interest a pull when your pushing?

I've noticed it isn't. I'm just confused as to why.

Like commenting on her ass or something then making a joke at her expense about something diffrent and she would love it. You still want her ass lol, is that not a pull?

This site would make you think she'd go "Oh, he still wants this well that's needy." But I have never noticed this, most chicks just like the sexual attention but never think of it as needy kind of attention. Why?

I've noticed guys give gifts, and chicks try to avoid them but never a guy commenting sexually and her being turned off.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Showing little interest, activing distant, making fun, teasing, all make a women attracted because they want what they can not have but showing sexual interest still makes a women attracted?.

Showing blunt sexual interest probably won't work unless they're a complete wh0re. It's all about subtle sexual interest like being in a sexual state and conveying that in all facets of yourself.
 

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What do you mean they have to be a complete wh0re? Can you explain that? I've never noticed this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Blunt sexual interest:

"Hey baby come back to my place and let's fyck." While you're grabbing her ass.

Only a slytty girl would go along with this.

Subtle sexual interest:

Being in a sexual state and looking deep into her eyes while establishing rapport.

"Oh really, you're interested in learning guitar? You know I've been playing for a little while and can show you a thing or too." ;)

Girls know why you want them to come back to your place but they need a reason to rationalize it.

"I didn't mean to go over there to get fyck sideways but so he could show me how to play guitar."

Also being scared of your sexuality is a nice guy trait, while embracing your sexuality is an Alpha Male trait.
 

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Just like what Remulak is saying

Show sexual interest but not so obvious that everyone around can see, the only person that will know is you and her.

You should never convey your interest verbally. All through body language and voice tone from sexual state projection.

The best way to convey sexuality is to be in sexual state instead of just reading the body language to have sexual state.

When your turned on (horny) your pupils dilate, your voice tone changes and your face gets flushed with colour, also your body language will slow down and you will be more relaxed.

Read GWM and stuff by Pook for more on this.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Yeah but isn't that sexual interest a pull when your pushing?

I've noticed it isn't. I'm just confused as to why.

Like commenting on her ass or something then making a joke at her expense about something diffrent and she would love it. You still want her ass lol, is that not a pull?

This site would make you think she'd go "Oh, he still wants this well that's needy." But I have never noticed this, most chicks just like the sexual attention but never think of it as needy kind of attention. Why?

I've noticed guys give gifts, and chicks try to avoid them but never a guy commenting sexually and her being turned off.
Being comfortable saying sexual things is a good thing at times. It is appropriate if you can really get a feel into the conversation and understand the dynamics of what is really being said. Hell, you dont even need to say it with exact wording. Girls know whats goin on.
 
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