"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Please People With Experience Why Is It That?

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Showing little interest, activing distant, making fun, teasing, all make a women attracted because they want what they can not have but showing sexual interest still makes a women attracted?

WRONG FORUM SUPPOSED TO BE IN GENERAL.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You show sexual interest first, so she knows who you are, then you tease, ignore, play games, etc.
 

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Yeah but isn't that sexual interest a pull when your pushing?

I've noticed it isn't. I'm just confused as to why.

Like commenting on her ass or something then making a joke at her expense about something diffrent and she would love it. You still want her ass lol, is that not a pull?

This site would make you think she'd go "Oh, he still wants this well that's needy." But I have never noticed this, most chicks just like the sexual attention but never think of it as needy kind of attention. Why?

I've noticed guys give gifts, and chicks try to avoid them but never a guy commenting sexually and her being turned off.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Showing little interest, activing distant, making fun, teasing, all make a women attracted because they want what they can not have but showing sexual interest still makes a women attracted?.

Showing blunt sexual interest probably won't work unless they're a complete wh0re. It's all about subtle sexual interest like being in a sexual state and conveying that in all facets of yourself.
 

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What do you mean they have to be a complete wh0re? Can you explain that? I've never noticed this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Blunt sexual interest:

"Hey baby come back to my place and let's fyck." While you're grabbing her ass.

Only a slytty girl would go along with this.

Subtle sexual interest:

Being in a sexual state and looking deep into her eyes while establishing rapport.

"Oh really, you're interested in learning guitar? You know I've been playing for a little while and can show you a thing or too." ;)

Girls know why you want them to come back to your place but they need a reason to rationalize it.

"I didn't mean to go over there to get fyck sideways but so he could show me how to play guitar."

Also being scared of your sexuality is a nice guy trait, while embracing your sexuality is an Alpha Male trait.
 

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Just like what Remulak is saying

Show sexual interest but not so obvious that everyone around can see, the only person that will know is you and her.

You should never convey your interest verbally. All through body language and voice tone from sexual state projection.

The best way to convey sexuality is to be in sexual state instead of just reading the body language to have sexual state.

When your turned on (horny) your pupils dilate, your voice tone changes and your face gets flushed with colour, also your body language will slow down and you will be more relaxed.

Read GWM and stuff by Pook for more on this.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Yeah but isn't that sexual interest a pull when your pushing?

I've noticed it isn't. I'm just confused as to why.

Like commenting on her ass or something then making a joke at her expense about something diffrent and she would love it. You still want her ass lol, is that not a pull?

This site would make you think she'd go "Oh, he still wants this well that's needy." But I have never noticed this, most chicks just like the sexual attention but never think of it as needy kind of attention. Why?

I've noticed guys give gifts, and chicks try to avoid them but never a guy commenting sexually and her being turned off.
Being comfortable saying sexual things is a good thing at times. It is appropriate if you can really get a feel into the conversation and understand the dynamics of what is really being said. Hell, you dont even need to say it with exact wording. Girls know whats goin on.
 
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