"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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please i realy need some help

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hi please i need some help my gf broke up with me 4 weeks ago we did not talk since then i didn t call her or begging her to make me back she study with me i am comfused should i forget her or try to make her back with me i did some good changes in my life in this weeks and i feel good but i cant imagine her with some one else what should i do i am realy a nice guy and i did t everything to make her happy but i think that was the problem i was to nice what should i do and how should i behave around her because weare int the same class please help meee
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'll give you some advice: Forget about her. I understand she's still in your daily life, but you've gotta move on. It might be hard, but you've gotta accept the fact that the relationship with your EX is over. The relationship ended for a reason. She's called your EX for a reason because it's in the PAST. Now, let it be in the past and move on with your life.

Start working out and improving yourself, do things to make your life more enjoyable and fun. Do anything that'll benefit you and take your mind off of your ex. Read the DJ bible, it's all the way at the bottom of the page.
Also, make sure you're talking to different girls. If you had 10 girls on your phone constantly texting you, I don't think you'd even have the time of day to be worrying about your EX.

Yes, it's probably going to hurt to see your ex with somebody else, but would you rather be sad TEMPORARILY and eventually get over it, or KEEP hurting yourself by staying with your ex. Hell, she probably already has guys lined up to talk to her now that you're out of the picture and you just don't know about it.

My friend, take a long time to think about your own happiness. This girl is nothing to you, nothing but one girl in your long journey of life. Try to make yourself happy and just get your mind off this girl. Getting back with your ex almost never ends up in a good way. Just let her go, and start making yourself happier in life. Find another girl and just keep moving forward in life.
 

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i feel that i will never find some one like her or anyone at all i feel that i will die alone
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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