"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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please i realy need some help

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hi please i need some help my gf broke up with me 4 weeks ago we did not talk since then i didn t call her or begging her to make me back she study with me i am comfused should i forget her or try to make her back with me i did some good changes in my life in this weeks and i feel good but i cant imagine her with some one else what should i do i am realy a nice guy and i did t everything to make her happy but i think that was the problem i was to nice what should i do and how should i behave around her because weare int the same class please help meee
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'll give you some advice: Forget about her. I understand she's still in your daily life, but you've gotta move on. It might be hard, but you've gotta accept the fact that the relationship with your EX is over. The relationship ended for a reason. She's called your EX for a reason because it's in the PAST. Now, let it be in the past and move on with your life.

Start working out and improving yourself, do things to make your life more enjoyable and fun. Do anything that'll benefit you and take your mind off of your ex. Read the DJ bible, it's all the way at the bottom of the page.
Also, make sure you're talking to different girls. If you had 10 girls on your phone constantly texting you, I don't think you'd even have the time of day to be worrying about your EX.

Yes, it's probably going to hurt to see your ex with somebody else, but would you rather be sad TEMPORARILY and eventually get over it, or KEEP hurting yourself by staying with your ex. Hell, she probably already has guys lined up to talk to her now that you're out of the picture and you just don't know about it.

My friend, take a long time to think about your own happiness. This girl is nothing to you, nothing but one girl in your long journey of life. Try to make yourself happy and just get your mind off this girl. Getting back with your ex almost never ends up in a good way. Just let her go, and start making yourself happier in life. Find another girl and just keep moving forward in life.
 

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i feel that i will never find some one like her or anyone at all i feel that i will die alone
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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