"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Oh My God, You're Being Such A F*cking Child!!!!!!! Did She Glance At Me, What Does That Mean??? Ohhh Today She Twirled Her Hair And Adjusted Her Bra!!!! She Loooooooves Meeeeee!!!!!! Weeeeeeeeeeee. You Sound Like A Very, Very Immature Guy.... The Amount Of Time And Emotional Energy You Have Spent On 1 F*cking Girl Is Soooooo Ridiculous It's Not Even Funny. You Are A Seriously Creepy Guy With How Needy You Are And How Caught Up You Are In Some Silly Body Language Drama. The Last Thing That You Need To Do Is Be Trying To F*ck Women Right Now, You Need To Go See A Therapist Asap To See What Is Going On And Why You Have This Obsession!!!!!

I Know That Sounds Harsh As F*ck But I'm Dishing You The Truth. If You Look Back At This In A Couple Years And Say "wow - What The Fu*k Was Wrong With Me" Then You Are On The Right Path.

Good Luck And Ask To Be Moved In Your Office Because Of Being Too Close / Not Close Enough To The Air Conditioner Or Something, You Really Don't Need All The Drama You Are Creating For Yourself By Being Able To See This Girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LOL. Dude where is the love? I sense a huge element of frustration on your behalf but why? Don't stress, you don't know me so what's the big deal don't let it get to you. I'm different to most guys you'd never understand me. This is a forum, I'm asking for help, quite simply, if you don't like what you read, look the other way. Don't carry on like a child though. If you did read the thread I asked not to be judged.

Thanks for the well wishes. ;)
 
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Just so you know guys know I asked her out.....she declined. She was really really nice about it and there was no awkwardness or any threat of telling the boss but she said she was "busy the next two Saturday nights so unfortunately she'd have to say no". That said.....there was no "maybe next time" or anything like that. At least I got my answer and can now move on. That's all I wanted......some closure. I guess that's as closed as it can get! LOL! At least I did it and still have my job hehe. Little bit gutted but also relieved.

Thanks for all the help guys.
 
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