"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh My God, You're Being Such A F*cking Child!!!!!!! Did She Glance At Me, What Does That Mean??? Ohhh Today She Twirled Her Hair And Adjusted Her Bra!!!! She Loooooooves Meeeeee!!!!!! Weeeeeeeeeeee. You Sound Like A Very, Very Immature Guy.... The Amount Of Time And Emotional Energy You Have Spent On 1 F*cking Girl Is Soooooo Ridiculous It's Not Even Funny. You Are A Seriously Creepy Guy With How Needy You Are And How Caught Up You Are In Some Silly Body Language Drama. The Last Thing That You Need To Do Is Be Trying To F*ck Women Right Now, You Need To Go See A Therapist Asap To See What Is Going On And Why You Have This Obsession!!!!!

I Know That Sounds Harsh As F*ck But I'm Dishing You The Truth. If You Look Back At This In A Couple Years And Say "wow - What The Fu*k Was Wrong With Me" Then You Are On The Right Path.

Good Luck And Ask To Be Moved In Your Office Because Of Being Too Close / Not Close Enough To The Air Conditioner Or Something, You Really Don't Need All The Drama You Are Creating For Yourself By Being Able To See This Girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LOL. Dude where is the love? I sense a huge element of frustration on your behalf but why? Don't stress, you don't know me so what's the big deal don't let it get to you. I'm different to most guys you'd never understand me. This is a forum, I'm asking for help, quite simply, if you don't like what you read, look the other way. Don't carry on like a child though. If you did read the thread I asked not to be judged.

Thanks for the well wishes. ;)
 
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Just so you know guys know I asked her out.....she declined. She was really really nice about it and there was no awkwardness or any threat of telling the boss but she said she was "busy the next two Saturday nights so unfortunately she'd have to say no". That said.....there was no "maybe next time" or anything like that. At least I got my answer and can now move on. That's all I wanted......some closure. I guess that's as closed as it can get! LOL! At least I did it and still have my job hehe. Little bit gutted but also relieved.

Thanks for all the help guys.
 
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