“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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okay so I'm 19... My first girlfriend was BPD... I don't want to go into detail but basically she left me for some jerk. I was devastated but after introspecting, I realized that I enabled her behavior by being a "Nice Guy." I always gave in to her demands and let SOOO many unacceptable actions occur over fear of confrontation or losing her. Anyway... I read sooo much material on this site. I read the Book of Pook among other e-books on this website.

Anyway, after seeing a very attractive girl in the gym a few days ago, I decided that rejection is better than regret. I started talking to her and got her phone number. Later that night, I texted her if she wanted to go out and she said yes. I've been keeping contact to a minimum... but when I have been texting her, I've been kinda ****y. I told her when I would pick her up but did not tell her where I was taking her. Like... I thought the texting was going well until I said something like "I'm in high demand." Am I being a jerk? I didn't say anything mean to her... I just want people to respect me. I'm tired of people taking advantage of my "nice" behavior. Before finding this site, I've been "nice" to girls and excusing their actions like blowing me off by saying "it's okay. maybe I'll see you later." I don't want to suffer from Oneitis, but this girl seems to have a lot of the qualities I'm attracted to. I think all this information has been very overwhelming. I'm worried about tomorrow's date. I guess I just want what everyone wants... acceptance. And I guess being a little too ****y is better than being a little too much of an AFC. It's just hard because I am saying things I have never said before. Maybe I am worrying too much.

Please, I need help!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My advice to you is this.

Congratulate yourself on your accomplishment so far. That is, you have gained the number of an attractive girl.

Secondly, stop over analysing and over thinking this situation. It is a curse of today's society.

Worrying is effective as trying to solve a maths equation by chewing bubble gum.

You are placing this girl on a pedestal, so high up, that fear of failure is worrying you.

Chill out and relax.

Be calm. Be cool. Be fun. Be flirty. Be exciting.

Do not berate yourself before anything has even happened.


And last of all.


Do not look for validation from other people be it girl or boy to make yourself feel accepted.

If you have read the book of pook as you have said and not just skimmed it then you should know that a common theme init is to not believe that being with a woman will make you happy.
 
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you're right. I mean after all, my friends were envious that I had a girlfriend for over a year and that I was getting consistent action. However, I wasn't any happier. There were times (like when I was getting action) that I was very happy haha. But fights, having my emotions played with, being lied to and cheated on... all of that sucked.
 
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I am overanalyzing everything and I think it's gonna mess up the date. Any advice on how to stop doing this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I responded to that thread right before you posted the link in this thread haha

I read that poem constantly after the break-up

"Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,"

I was lied about and hated by her and many people in high school. But a real man does not deal in lies. I actually have this already posted on my wall in my college dorm.
 
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thanks for the advice dude

I shouldn't have been nervous at all. She was not what I was hoping for and I am happy i didn't create this great image in my mind like i did in the past

She told me how she never wants to be married or have children... get's in the way of life

Family is so important to me. I just lost all interest in her after that. Is it bad to not attempt to hook up with someone you had fun with but didn't really see any potential, even if she's really cute? haha
 
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