"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Please Help

A

aballer2323

Don Juan
Joined
May 20, 2011
Messages
26
Reaction score
0
Hi, I've been frequenting the forums for a while, but this is my first time really posting because i'm in a situation where i dont know what to do, and i'm hoping you guys could help me out.

there this girl that i've known and liked for a while. long story short, the relationship was pretty much one-sided with me doing most of the initiation. what eventualyl happened was me telling her that i liked her and she giving me the LJBF talk (this was before I found this forum and realized how bad of an idea that was on my part).

Anyway, it's been a while since then and i've pretty much moved on/stopped talking to her. but recently, she's started to be all friendly towards me and intiating conversations with me and stuff. im not really sure why she would do a turnaround like this. what should i do in a situation like this? thanks!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

B

BadNews

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2011
Messages
259
Reaction score
17
Location
Alberta, Canada.
PHAT Rabbit said:
You can be friendly back but I wouldn't invest much in this. She may just be looking for attention - women love to have men fawn over them. I would chalk it up to the game and move on mentally...meanwhile flirt with her and whatever knowing full well it's not going anywhere.
Click to expand...
I'm gonna agree with Rabbit here. She is PROBABLY just seeking attention. So don't reciprocate too much. If you play it right, you may be able to create some attraction down the road...but you really need to remain aloof with her. Don't get your hopes up, and don't expect anything to come of this.
 
O

oneboy21

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 28, 2006
Messages
357
Reaction score
5
Location
Columbus, OH
What the above two guys said is right
One more thing i would like to add, at the beginning when you liked her she didn't liked you back and LJBF'ed you, there might be a reason for that, she might secretly had a crush on some guy and she wanted to pursue him, in the mean while she thought nothing is wrong in keeping you around, so she could use you as a back-up.
So here now be nice to her and act always busy, make her chase you. If you act like AFC she is going to do the same thing again. So becareful
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top