"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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aballer2323

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Hi, I've been frequenting the forums for a while, but this is my first time really posting because i'm in a situation where i dont know what to do, and i'm hoping you guys could help me out.

there this girl that i've known and liked for a while. long story short, the relationship was pretty much one-sided with me doing most of the initiation. what eventualyl happened was me telling her that i liked her and she giving me the LJBF talk (this was before I found this forum and realized how bad of an idea that was on my part).

Anyway, it's been a while since then and i've pretty much moved on/stopped talking to her. but recently, she's started to be all friendly towards me and intiating conversations with me and stuff. im not really sure why she would do a turnaround like this. what should i do in a situation like this? thanks!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PHAT Rabbit said:
You can be friendly back but I wouldn't invest much in this. She may just be looking for attention - women love to have men fawn over them. I would chalk it up to the game and move on mentally...meanwhile flirt with her and whatever knowing full well it's not going anywhere.
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I'm gonna agree with Rabbit here. She is PROBABLY just seeking attention. So don't reciprocate too much. If you play it right, you may be able to create some attraction down the road...but you really need to remain aloof with her. Don't get your hopes up, and don't expect anything to come of this.
 
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What the above two guys said is right
One more thing i would like to add, at the beginning when you liked her she didn't liked you back and LJBF'ed you, there might be a reason for that, she might secretly had a crush on some guy and she wanted to pursue him, in the mean while she thought nothing is wrong in keeping you around, so she could use you as a back-up.
So here now be nice to her and act always busy, make her chase you. If you act like AFC she is going to do the same thing again. So becareful
 
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