"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dear DJ Forum Members,

in advance I ask you to forgive me for my bad english.

I write from Italy.

I need an advice in dealing with this issue.

I knew some months ago a nice girl in my workplace. We shared the same room for 1 month. Then she has been transferred in another office of my company.

I established a very good rapport with her in that month. I think that I had been able to do so because I thought that I had nothing to lose with her: she has a boyfriend and she lives with him...(GULP!!!!).

After she left my office we're stayin always in touch. She writes me many many e-mails and, since we have more interest in common, we went out togheter (alone) in the city sometimes to attend exhibitions, theater performances, have a drink etc...

I like very much to spend time with her and she seems to me also enjoying the time that she spends with me.

Sometimes she tells me about his boyfriend, that sometimes is jealous that she goes out only with me etc...

I arranged a meeting with her for friday afternoon (italian time).

As you certainly understood I would like more from her, I would like to be her boyfriend!!! because I like her very much.

So do you think that I could have any chances???

May you suggest to me how to behave in next meetings (starting from Friday)?

Am I completely mad in saying so?

If you need more informations yto answer please ask.

Thank A Lot!

Best Regards,

Single
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I reply not having my question lost in the list....

Please if you can give me some suggestions.

Thanks
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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You could just be a friend to her because she has a boyfriend.

She could have some interest in you. Since she will go on little dates with you alone.

But, In all honesty. She most likely wont leave her boyfriend for you. I would go out and meet new girls.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. thank you for your answer.

I also think that is probably as you think. I don't want lose much time but I want to try only to say to myself "At least I tried" but only if there is a way to do thing in the right way.

Anybody out there have other suggestion?

Thanks
 
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