"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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phoenix_met

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Hi guysI posted this thread in highschool forum and i got vary good advices
I think you guys can help me too

I'm sorry if I write incorrect.

Two month earlier I met a pretty girl who is the friend of my friend's girlfriend. First she called me and we talked for a few minutes and next day we met each other but not alone my friend and her friend came with us too .we had good time together ,I think I established a new relationship and at the end I said:" call me" and she replied :" ok "
After few days I didn't receive a call but in the afternoon I see her on-line in the messenger so I tried to talk to her after few minutes she write this: "I don't want to be with you." And I said:" ok, no problem. ".I don't think I have problem because my body is in good shape and I'm handsome enough (lol) .I ask my friend Sam why she don't want to be with me and he said she thinks you are too old. (I'm 17 but I'm look like 20 ).after that I forgot her until today. we (me and sam) went to a sport complex and he had a date with his girlfriend(Ana) .when we walked through the desks in the caffeteria I saw her sitting beside Ana so I looked into her eyes and say high with high confidence and a great bodylanguage.First she freezed then she say hi .Sam sat beside them and I went and sat on another desk.I thought she become nervous if I sat beside them .after few minutes they stand up and came and sat beside me.3 other girls came with them too and we talked but not too much. She is too shy.I think she gave me some signs that she want me but she is shy and couldn't do anything .
I think I like her and want to date with her.I have a chance to meet her next week and I hope I can do something .

What should I exactly do?How should I break the ice ?How should I talked to her?I want some topics for conversation?and ……

Please give me a complete plan to win.

THANKS A LOT
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Phyzzle

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You already tried to break the ice and she said:

"I don't want to be with you."

It doesn't get much more clear than that.
 

blinkwatt

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phoenix_met said:
Please give me a complete plan to win.
Live life,don't be afraid to learn on your own.

I would tread lightly becuause of the "I don't want to be with you" comment. None-the-less you said you saw signals,what were they?
 
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