"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Please help on how to handle medical condition

djokovic77

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Okay, so guys this is a medium-long read but please help me and bear with me I need your help on how you would handle this pain in the ass situation. Not how to deal with it medically, but socially is it a killer with girls? How do I play it off? It's annoying because lately I have had women hitting on me left right and center and I wanna go out and enjoy my life once and for all...seems like I always have some sh*t in my way lol.

I have this annoying thing where I break out in immune bump type reactions on my face and body due to a variety of common foods...it's like inflamed mild acne at its worst. It's not acne actually though..I can be perfectly clear if I eat a perfect, anti inflammatory diet. Which is basically like just fish/chicken/ and steak occasionally...(but no sauce on anything and absolutely no dairy/refined sugar). I stick to non starchy vegetables...ezekiel bread... low GI fruit...brown rice etc. Black coffee and only hard liquor when I go out, otherwise just water to drink. That keeps me perfectly clear, as I don't get normal acne anymore. I'm confident I'll fix this...as I've been through worse and gotten it solved...and I have good resources (my mom lol) and some promising upcoming appointments with doctors/natural healers. But in the meantime I have decided to suck it up and go on this diet until I find a solution (which will be a few weeks at least).

The diet is the easy part for me because I know it's not forever. Socially, I decided I could tell chicks I meet I'm on an anti-inflammatory diet for spring allergies...but what about when I wake up the next morning in their place and there's nothing I can eat. Will it look weird? And in restaurants/places etc..I know this sounds crazy but I don't know how weird it will come across to girls. I don't wanna seem weird/picky/fussy etc. but I have no choice. I usually think just 'screw it, who cares what they think!, if I'm confident about it, it doesn't matter' (and remind myself hopefully this will be over soon.) But is that attitude realistic?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you have girls hitting on you, sleeping with you, etc., and you're only concern is what they might think of your strict diet, I'd say you have very little to be concerned about.

If they question it, just say "I'm on a strict diet.". No need to get into detail. It's not a big deal.
 

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Are you sure you don't have a wheat Gluten allergy?

Have you tried fasting?
 

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Yeah, I'm sure. I wish to God it was that easy lol.

So, do you all think it's really no big deal socially to play it off to females? I read somewhere that like 72 percent of women think fussy eaters are a turn off haha.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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