The first 48 is a tv show that claims the first 48hrs after a murder is the best possible time to find the murderer. It should be also be a tv series showing people f*cking painfully resisting the urge to contact their ex's after a breakup, which is exactly what's happening right now. Need some guidance here. Rip me up, tear me apart. I want to so bad. Tell me it's not worth it. Tell me to move on. Give me all you've got.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Please help me with this NC
- Thread starter JonnyD123
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dude, I think its much better to just ask yourself some tough questions instead.
Ask yourself why you want someone who doesn't want you. Ask yourself how someone who doesn't like you is good for you.
You should only want to be in relationships with people who think highly of you. If you have to work too hard to get someone to think highly of you, then its the wrong relationship.
Just get real with yourself. No one needs to rip you up.
Ask yourself why you want someone who doesn't want you. Ask yourself how someone who doesn't like you is good for you.
You should only want to be in relationships with people who think highly of you. If you have to work too hard to get someone to think highly of you, then its the wrong relationship.
Just get real with yourself. No one needs to rip you up.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
You dodged a bullet. Pat yourself on the back, Neo.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Always tell yourself to be a fvcking man. Men aren't wimps, so don't be a wimp. Men don't cry, so don't cry.
Men are strong, so be strong. Men are tough, so be tough. You've only got yourself to rely on in this world nowadays, so harden up and handle yourself. If you can't handle some stupid mindgames some b!tch is throwing at you, how can you be man enough to handle anything at all. Come on Johnny, BE A F*CKING MAN ALREADY!
Men are strong, so be strong. Men are tough, so be tough. You've only got yourself to rely on in this world nowadays, so harden up and handle yourself. If you can't handle some stupid mindgames some b!tch is throwing at you, how can you be man enough to handle anything at all. Come on Johnny, BE A F*CKING MAN ALREADY!
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BlueAlpha1
Guest
Imagine you had a broken wrist. It hurts like hell now, but by doing nothing it will begin to heal. Talking to her now would be akin to sticking your broken wrist into a garbage disposal for more excruciating punishment.
It will hurt like hell whether you contact her or not, but one way gets better with time and the other way gets worse.
It will hurt like hell whether you contact her or not, but one way gets better with time and the other way gets worse.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
logicallefty
Moderator
Get out and date other women as fast as possible. See women you are most interested in but if you have to, date down a knotch. The company with other women will help take your mind off the ex.