"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JonnyD123

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The first 48 is a tv show that claims the first 48hrs after a murder is the best possible time to find the murderer. It should be also be a tv series showing people f*cking painfully resisting the urge to contact their ex's after a breakup, which is exactly what's happening right now. Need some guidance here. Rip me up, tear me apart. I want to so bad. Tell me it's not worth it. Tell me to move on. Give me all you've got.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Urbanyst

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Dude, I think its much better to just ask yourself some tough questions instead.

Ask yourself why you want someone who doesn't want you. Ask yourself how someone who doesn't like you is good for you.

You should only want to be in relationships with people who think highly of you. If you have to work too hard to get someone to think highly of you, then its the wrong relationship.

Just get real with yourself. No one needs to rip you up.
 

wifehunter

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You dodged a bullet. Pat yourself on the back, Neo.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Always tell yourself to be a fvcking man. Men aren't wimps, so don't be a wimp. Men don't cry, so don't cry.

Men are strong, so be strong. Men are tough, so be tough. You've only got yourself to rely on in this world nowadays, so harden up and handle yourself. If you can't handle some stupid mindgames some b!tch is throwing at you, how can you be man enough to handle anything at all. Come on Johnny, BE A F*CKING MAN ALREADY!
 
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Imagine you had a broken wrist. It hurts like hell now, but by doing nothing it will begin to heal. Talking to her now would be akin to sticking your broken wrist into a garbage disposal for more excruciating punishment.

It will hurt like hell whether you contact her or not, but one way gets better with time and the other way gets worse.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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logicallefty

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Get out and date other women as fast as possible. See women you are most interested in but if you have to, date down a knotch. The company with other women will help take your mind off the ex.
 
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