"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok those who read my fields report know that I got some girls here and there but now we will focus on two in particular since the other plates forced me to go no contact out of annoyment.

So untill I get others (which you will see in my next field reports) I would like your opinion about dealing with those two girls.

1)girl nr.1 we call her "blondie" like the singer, is 19 years old really good looking and clever, Im not kidding she has really something to say apart parties or facebook, I met her last friday while hunting with my wingman, her best friends like me too (as a person not as lover) so no risk for c0ckblock.

Had a pic nic with her on monday after and despite the fvcking high sign of interest I didnt manage to kiss her when we splitted (she turned her head twice), she was touching me all the time at the park, my hair, my chest and my arms and keeping physical contact and eye contact all the time.

For now I give her the benefit of the doubt since after the date she wrote me texts without me texting her anything (I was dining and food got priority nr 1 there).

She comes from a conservative family and dress really well, in a very feminine manner which I appreciated much, no ****ing jeans and flip-flop.

2) Girl nr. 2 we call her brunette 28 yrs old femine and good looking as well but less naive than blondie but as clevers as she, she works in a tax company or smt like that,she is the girl from the field report which I met again after a couple of months of no see, I found her casually in a club right after I left my other date because she was flirting more with an other guy than me and forced me to change place.

Anyway I approached her that night, spent hours talking to her and somehow managed to make her best friend be positive toward me so c0ckblock risk should be low.

Met her on thursday and toke her to mc donald and get a cheesburger,I paid for both despite she took away her wallet then we moved to a bar where she paid the drinks, we spent about a hour on the sofa where I almost raped her (kidding) I mean I was keep going for the kiss till she finally reciprocadet althouth with no so much passion, anyway she was laughing all the time and keeping eye contact so again I give the benefit of the doubt to her.

I managed to put my hand inside her trousers and rub her underwear and she waited about a couple of seconds before telling me to stop, which toke me other 2 or 3 seconds to do.

She had to work the following day so I toke her to the taxi station and then finally I got a serious kiss, well not a pon movie french kiss but lets say and high school french kiss.

My plan is to work on both on them and get serious with one only after being sure of not being screwed, during the time I'll look for other plates of course since I lost two last weeks.

Blondie replied to text fast enough but the effort decreased to I cutted them, brunette is not as fast althouth she replies of course.
Im thinking about withdraw part of my attention for the next week and see if they write me.

Both the meeting with them were my proposal but they accomodated easily, except that brunette called me to make it 1 hour early that same day.

What do you suggest?
 

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Come on, no one?

Its a mutual benefit if you give me some help, I'll go forward then do some report.
 

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My plan is to work on both on them and get serious with one only after being sure of not being screwed
you can never be sure of that , so be weary , and im a little confused of what your actually asking , do you want to be told how often to talk to each one , or witch to focus on or how to balance them ? elaborate on what you'd like to know
 

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you can never be sure of that , so be weary , and im a little confused of what your actually asking , do you want to be told how often to talk to each one , or witch to focus on or how to balance them ? elaborate on what you'd like to know
Exactly mostly that, cause right now I have ony the two of them as main plates while Im still beginning with a couple of other girls met at the club.

Im not sure how to balance my attention to them, cause they know I often go looking for girls so Im afraid if I neglect too much, they will be resentful while if I go after them too much they will take me for granted and lose interest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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