"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok those who read my fields report know that I got some girls here and there but now we will focus on two in particular since the other plates forced me to go no contact out of annoyment.

So untill I get others (which you will see in my next field reports) I would like your opinion about dealing with those two girls.

1)girl nr.1 we call her "blondie" like the singer, is 19 years old really good looking and clever, Im not kidding she has really something to say apart parties or facebook, I met her last friday while hunting with my wingman, her best friends like me too (as a person not as lover) so no risk for c0ckblock.

Had a pic nic with her on monday after and despite the fvcking high sign of interest I didnt manage to kiss her when we splitted (she turned her head twice), she was touching me all the time at the park, my hair, my chest and my arms and keeping physical contact and eye contact all the time.

For now I give her the benefit of the doubt since after the date she wrote me texts without me texting her anything (I was dining and food got priority nr 1 there).

She comes from a conservative family and dress really well, in a very feminine manner which I appreciated much, no ****ing jeans and flip-flop.

2) Girl nr. 2 we call her brunette 28 yrs old femine and good looking as well but less naive than blondie but as clevers as she, she works in a tax company or smt like that,she is the girl from the field report which I met again after a couple of months of no see, I found her casually in a club right after I left my other date because she was flirting more with an other guy than me and forced me to change place.

Anyway I approached her that night, spent hours talking to her and somehow managed to make her best friend be positive toward me so c0ckblock risk should be low.

Met her on thursday and toke her to mc donald and get a cheesburger,I paid for both despite she took away her wallet then we moved to a bar where she paid the drinks, we spent about a hour on the sofa where I almost raped her (kidding) I mean I was keep going for the kiss till she finally reciprocadet althouth with no so much passion, anyway she was laughing all the time and keeping eye contact so again I give the benefit of the doubt to her.

I managed to put my hand inside her trousers and rub her underwear and she waited about a couple of seconds before telling me to stop, which toke me other 2 or 3 seconds to do.

She had to work the following day so I toke her to the taxi station and then finally I got a serious kiss, well not a pon movie french kiss but lets say and high school french kiss.

My plan is to work on both on them and get serious with one only after being sure of not being screwed, during the time I'll look for other plates of course since I lost two last weeks.

Blondie replied to text fast enough but the effort decreased to I cutted them, brunette is not as fast althouth she replies of course.
Im thinking about withdraw part of my attention for the next week and see if they write me.

Both the meeting with them were my proposal but they accomodated easily, except that brunette called me to make it 1 hour early that same day.

What do you suggest?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Come on, no one?

Its a mutual benefit if you give me some help, I'll go forward then do some report.
 

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My plan is to work on both on them and get serious with one only after being sure of not being screwed
you can never be sure of that , so be weary , and im a little confused of what your actually asking , do you want to be told how often to talk to each one , or witch to focus on or how to balance them ? elaborate on what you'd like to know
 

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cablecow15 said:
you can never be sure of that , so be weary , and im a little confused of what your actually asking , do you want to be told how often to talk to each one , or witch to focus on or how to balance them ? elaborate on what you'd like to know
Exactly mostly that, cause right now I have ony the two of them as main plates while Im still beginning with a couple of other girls met at the club.

Im not sure how to balance my attention to them, cause they know I often go looking for girls so Im afraid if I neglect too much, they will be resentful while if I go after them too much they will take me for granted and lose interest.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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