please help me, this girls very confusing

[TheCommonreactor]

for anyone who doesnt know my other story, pretty much ivve been crazy about this girl for a couple years now. she coddles with me a lot and shows interest me round school, always wanting my attention and such. well the other night i was at a party with her, a bunch of our friends got wasted and baked, so since we both wernt doing any of that stuff i was like "lets get out of here" so we went down to the local park and layed in the grass, cuddling closely, and watching the rain come in (didnt rain that much, if you care lol). after a bit of talking she asked me what was on my mind, and i did something everyone here would recommend not doing, i told her how i felt about her. she was pretty surprised that i liked her, and she said she just wants us to stay friends, but has mixed feelings for me now that she became single(like a couple months ago). after a bit of talking, she started to wonder why i liked her, bc, for some reason, she has low self-esteem. so i told her how beautiful i thought she was and stuff then we decided to head back to the party bc it was almost 1AM. as we were walking back, arms around eachother very closely, she stops me. she looks into my eyes and kisses me. not once, but a couple times and then eventually works it into a hug, and she whispers "your still you, im sorry" now, right now you can imagine how confused and stuned i am. after taking in what had just happened i told her "well, how could you tell all your feelings from one kiss? i wasnt even expecting that..." she smiled and started to kiss me again, and this time i was a lil more ready to work my magic, but she said she still didnt feel anything.

wtf.

i doubt anyone can tell something like that from one kiss, especially since she was so happy to kiss me again...

anyways, i really need some advice. today i decided that i was gunna take her into the city for the day on satuday and take her to lunch and stuff, but its a surprise, all she knows is im taking her somewhere. i dont know if i should bring up this past weekend or to just keep going like nothing happened and maybe try to persuade her feelings for me. i dont really feel like taking her into the city for lunch and then having her be like "thanks for the food, and yeah, bc u asked, i dont have feelings for you"

BUT I HAVE NO IDEA. sry for the caps, haha, this is very frustrating, any help would be nice.

 

[Five To One]

Don't bring up last week and don't talk about your feelings more. Don't let the conversation turn to feelings or deep thoughts. Do have a good time and act normal.

Then next time you hang out with her have it be alone in privacy. She kissed you for christ sake, you dont need any more signs to see if she likes you. Make a move and make out with her already. She wants you to do it.

"your still you, im sorry" I would guess means you didnt take control of the situation. "Your still you" as in you, and not a man. Plus you said she was surprised when you said you liked her. She was shocked you have sexual feelings. It sounds like you have been playing the role of a best friend.


Learn how to let girls know your interested subtlely and dont wait till the girl kisses you next time.


Bottem line is she likes you but only if you change your mindset and act like a man who wants her.

 

[f283000]

great post above me! you need to show some passion bro. Sit in a bench somewhere and give her the makeout session of her life! take her breath away, then you will never have your manhood questioned again! oh yeah btw don't talk about your FN feelings, let her talk about hers.

 

[Pdizzzzzzle]

dont bring it up. dont hang on one girl for too long, unless your sure your gaining ground.

 

[TheCommonreactor]

five to one your so right its scary.

thanks guys, time for me to stop being a ***** *cracks knuckles*....owe...

 

[Relationship-Buddy]

You're the man.

Be the man.


Good Luck!