"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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please help me out guys, i`m not sure about this one...

djjoe

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okay, guys, thanks alot for the answers...

i have to excuse myself for not posting any sooner, but i was a bit stressed the last few weeks...

well, i found it interesting to read that some of you think that i might even still have a chance with her, since i had already decided to next her...
i have had a few dates with another girl since then and also have gotten some more numbers...

i have not called or met her since then...
maybe i should call her again and ask her out...???

@tmpgstx: i was wondering what you would suggest to me???

all the best to all of you, joe
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ok maybe I'm gulp...."maturing" but I've been through situations where you go after a girl with a boyfriend. Yes the girl actually has a bf, its not a "test" or anything. It ended up working out and I banged her a million times, BUT she was a crazy psycho chick. You have to think to yourself dood. If this chick has a bf, WTF is she doing out with you? A few possible scenarios:

1-She's an attention w-hore: All girls are, but to varying degrees

2-She doesn't have a bf, but she's not romantically interested in you

3-She might be thinking about leaving her bf


Point is this; yes you treat girls with bf's just like single girls and its almost easier to seduce them because they're already unhappy with their man, so they're thinking of how great you are. BUT, in the end it ends up being much more of a headache then its worth. Girls that go out with other guys when they have a bf aren't trustworthy LTR types of species. I would move on like you have but if you want to call her again then do it. I think it looks lame that you back off and now your suddenly calling again, NEXT her and move on. If she's interested she knows how to get a hold of you.



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I would move on like you have but if you want to call her again then do it. I think it looks lame that you back off and now your suddenly calling again, NEXT her and move on. If she's interested she knows how to get a hold of you.

ok, thanks for the input...

i haven`t called her and I think it is best to next her...

thanks alot, guys,
 
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