"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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please help me out guys, i`m not sure about this one...

djjoe

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okay, guys, thanks alot for the answers...

i have to excuse myself for not posting any sooner, but i was a bit stressed the last few weeks...

well, i found it interesting to read that some of you think that i might even still have a chance with her, since i had already decided to next her...
i have had a few dates with another girl since then and also have gotten some more numbers...

i have not called or met her since then...
maybe i should call her again and ask her out...???

@tmpgstx: i was wondering what you would suggest to me???

all the best to all of you, joe
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok maybe I'm gulp...."maturing" but I've been through situations where you go after a girl with a boyfriend. Yes the girl actually has a bf, its not a "test" or anything. It ended up working out and I banged her a million times, BUT she was a crazy psycho chick. You have to think to yourself dood. If this chick has a bf, WTF is she doing out with you? A few possible scenarios:

1-She's an attention w-hore: All girls are, but to varying degrees

2-She doesn't have a bf, but she's not romantically interested in you

3-She might be thinking about leaving her bf


Point is this; yes you treat girls with bf's just like single girls and its almost easier to seduce them because they're already unhappy with their man, so they're thinking of how great you are. BUT, in the end it ends up being much more of a headache then its worth. Girls that go out with other guys when they have a bf aren't trustworthy LTR types of species. I would move on like you have but if you want to call her again then do it. I think it looks lame that you back off and now your suddenly calling again, NEXT her and move on. If she's interested she knows how to get a hold of you.



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I would move on like you have but if you want to call her again then do it. I think it looks lame that you back off and now your suddenly calling again, NEXT her and move on. If she's interested she knows how to get a hold of you.

ok, thanks for the input...

i haven`t called her and I think it is best to next her...

thanks alot, guys,
 
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