"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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please help me fix this....

Potbelly

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djs i'm coming to you in a time of desperation. my oneitis has come back...seemingly out of nowhere. it was ok when i didn't see her at school for periods of time, but now that we're separated at college, i haven't seen her for 6 months or so.

seems like nothing special, and i am fully aware of the saying "out of sight, out of mind." but it only seems like time has idealized this person in my mind for me.....

i know there is low or no interest on her part because i've done nothing different since we've met, but it seems like this transition has made her very distant. i've sent birthday/xmas/new years greetings to everyone and basically she never replies (goddamn, i sound like a stupid *****)

i konw i should just slap myself and move on, but sometimes you need a slap in the face from someone else...help me out DJs...kick my ass back into gearr

thanks guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lol you sound so pathetic i just had to laugh! just fix your attitude man!! Don't put all your eggs in one basket man...look at all the coolest smoothest guys on the planet, myself included, they don't obsess over a girl ever!!! Yes they fall in love but it's always mutual because they are smooth, cool mofos!!

My advice, forget about her and become a smooth, cool mofo that the woman lust over! take things in your stride and go out into the field and see what other little fish there are to take advantage of!!!haha
 

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ahahha you're right man. i read my post again and it sounds like a fukkin ***** wrote it. i sound like a damn girl.

alright thanks for your help bro. i'm just gonna live my life, meet people a long the way and as you say it be a "cool ass mofo" haha :up:
 
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