"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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please help me and critique this attempt at girl

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neonlimited

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Saturday Night - Went out to a hookah bar with a group of people, a girl came with who I did not know, sat down, talked to her, introduced myself and we talked a while about random stuff, and then i mentioned I was going to a jerry springer show and she should come.. got her number, and when i left isaid i had to go but ill call you about the show.

I feel like I had no game whatsoever, what did I do wrong?

I even did a little kino.

what else coudl i have done?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can't answer your question until you let me know:

1. Did you have a hookah?

2. If you did have one what flavour tobacco did you smoke?

Seriously. You met her, asked her out, got a number and ejected. That was a tidy little operation. Well done.
 
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i know that feeling tho i think. when you feel like you do an awful job but you still have success. it obviously wasnt that bad man. first impressions do mean a lot but i think in your case you have the oppurtunity to make an even better second impression. just relax, make the call, have a nice night out and youre good. jerry springer, that is gold man.
 
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