"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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please help me and critique this attempt at girl

neonlimited

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Saturday Night - Went out to a hookah bar with a group of people, a girl came with who I did not know, sat down, talked to her, introduced myself and we talked a while about random stuff, and then i mentioned I was going to a jerry springer show and she should come.. got her number, and when i left isaid i had to go but ill call you about the show.

I feel like I had no game whatsoever, what did I do wrong?

I even did a little kino.

what else coudl i have done?
 

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Jay Jay

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I can't answer your question until you let me know:

1. Did you have a hookah?

2. If you did have one what flavour tobacco did you smoke?

Seriously. You met her, asked her out, got a number and ejected. That was a tidy little operation. Well done.
 

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i know that feeling tho i think. when you feel like you do an awful job but you still have success. it obviously wasnt that bad man. first impressions do mean a lot but i think in your case you have the oppurtunity to make an even better second impression. just relax, make the call, have a nice night out and youre good. jerry springer, that is gold man.
 
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