Dhoulmagus
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Whenever I catch my friends' girls playing them, I never tell them. Why? Because they'll believe me until their gf lies to them and they will get all mad at me lol.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Please help i think my girl is cheating on me
- Thread starter JohnBeck
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LuckyStrike88
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John, your affection for her is clouding your judgement. You probably feel like you don't have enough evidence that she cheated on you and you can't just throw her out because you care about her.JohnBeck said:
Talk to your friend man, it seems like she lives together with you so she would usually be there with you right. Did your friend know she was with your her parents that day? If not he would unlikely be in a position to make something like this up.
It might all seem good to you right now, but trust the people here they know these kinds of situations. She will run you over again in the future, do you really want that pain?
^ This here is all the evidence you need. She got p1ssed off at you. Anyone innocent of such an accusation would sit you down calmly and discuss this. Rather than being p1ssed off at you an innocent person would be worried that you would dump her.JohnBeck said:
Next her. Now!
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
John, even the most liberal pro marriage site out there marriagebuilders would tell you yes she's cheating and to dump her. Failed interview for a life partner.
I know its tough and you probably can't follow the advice but you need to end it. I hope you can do that before she does too much more damage.
I know its tough and you probably can't follow the advice but you need to end it. I hope you can do that before she does too much more damage.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
im at my friend house to talk about the things.. he reads along with this forum post. he says he did not even know she was with the parents and that he is sure he saw her with the guy... he is very angry at her to lie to me when i asked her he want to go talk to her with me together and help me. i trust him he says he will do anything to help me get through this situation we are about to go to my house and talk to my girl...
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
Awesome. I don't know why you can't handle this shyt alone but the fact your friend is willing to confront her to her face is a really good sign.
Stay calm, stay in control, be a rock, be a man. She'll probably get angry, she'll probably try to humiliate you, call you names and then threaten to leave.
Don't react, just let her go.
Make sure you tell us what happened brother.
Stay calm, stay in control, be a rock, be a man. She'll probably get angry, she'll probably try to humiliate you, call you names and then threaten to leave.
Don't react, just let her go.
Make sure you tell us what happened brother.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
I'm losing faith this isn't a troll.JohnBeck said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Igetit!
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So you and your friend...the TWO of you are about to "gang up" and go confront YOUR girl. Hmmm.....JohnBeck said:
Well reguardless of what she says,hell.....reguardless of whether she actually cheated on you or not,you know this will likely be the end of the relationship.
I mean sh1t....how can this chick have two men back her into a corner demanding answers,then afterwards go back to being all "lovey-dovey" with you as if nothing ever happened?
we went to talk to my girl and i was scared to do it my friend told me i should be cool and calm and told me he would say a few things to her and i should just look at her response.. we came in and i was very scared and could not talk he started to talk and say he saw her he was mad at her.. i see she shocked that he said he saw her with the guy..... i got really ****ing mad then and said her did you cheat with me???! and looked at her eyes.. She cried and said everything...... She was very drunk and a guy helped her because she was feeling bad.. Then she kissed him and he said she should sleep at his place...... and because she feels bad she goes to his place and sleep at his house.. then i asked her if something hapend more than just sleep!! she sayss yes they had sex.. i got very mad and kicked the table and trow the tv off the tv table..... i said her WHY i am so good to you i give anything you want!! then she says she loves me but that i do too much for her. what too much i do everything good?!! then she say she yes but it too much and i never complain... i dont understand it why it is not good how i am to her.... she have sex with other guy... she sit on the couch staring and not saying anything crying and i feel bad for her.. i sit next to her and she hugs me says she love me... and she is very sorry. i say her to go to bed and i need to think about it... I love her alot and she love me but why go sex with the other guy?? i dont know what to do i am mad at her but i love her very much.. if any guy can help me here i will thank you alot...
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I refuse to give advice! There is so much wrong with you that I do not know where to start! I must speak in person if I were to help you change your life. Toughen up, don't be a pushover, care about yourself over her!
YOU come first. YOU are greater. YOU are stronger. YOU have worked harder. YOU are the true person in your life, NOT her.
So much wrong I am questioning the validity of this thread.
But, first thing is first:
Leave her. You cannot, and will not for that matter, be able to become happy or even keep her until you do so. You will never be able to grow or develop as a person. And you will not be able to forget or forgive her for anything else anymore because of this factor. Therefore, leave. You cannot succeed until you do.
YOU come first. YOU are greater. YOU are stronger. YOU have worked harder. YOU are the true person in your life, NOT her.
So much wrong I am questioning the validity of this thread.
But, first thing is first:
Leave her. You cannot, and will not for that matter, be able to become happy or even keep her until you do so. You will never be able to grow or develop as a person. And you will not be able to forget or forgive her for anything else anymore because of this factor. Therefore, leave. You cannot succeed until you do.
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Make the move to Fort Steak Texas.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
It's done OP. Get out now and don't look back.
Take some time away, heal and work on improving yourself.
She is dead to you. Nothing more. Don't try to figure out why, just accept that she is a wh0re and leave her to wallow in her wh0redom.
If you forgive her, you are basically telling her and the world that you have no balls and are weak.
Be strong, do the strong thing, do the manly thing. Leave her and then go straight to the "No Contact Challenge" thread on these boards.
There are many people who know EXACTLY what you're going through and they can help you get through this and move on with your life.
Don't think about the good things in the relationship, focus on the horrible badness and let that be your only influence.
Take some time away, heal and work on improving yourself.
She is dead to you. Nothing more. Don't try to figure out why, just accept that she is a wh0re and leave her to wallow in her wh0redom.
If you forgive her, you are basically telling her and the world that you have no balls and are weak.
Be strong, do the strong thing, do the manly thing. Leave her and then go straight to the "No Contact Challenge" thread on these boards.
There are many people who know EXACTLY what you're going through and they can help you get through this and move on with your life.
Don't think about the good things in the relationship, focus on the horrible badness and let that be your only influence.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.