Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I love you.NewJack said:It sounds like your heart is invested in a fragile bond.
This may cause you some pain in the future.
If it does, you may be sad and depressed for a couple months.
Nevertheless, you'll grow, and blossom as a man, and have many good times with many different women. Remember the good things that are in store for you, even if its hard to imagine how they will come into being, just know that if you keep marching forward, they will.
We were not meant to be ships of such light construction that the winds of change overturn and wreck us. So find a heavy, solid part of Yourself, and hold on to it when the storm comes on.
No.dangdang said:Does she have kids too?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.