"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Please help. Cant define abs

NeedToImprove

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can someone please give some abs exercises that i can follow up, it seems i cant get my abs ripped (i want a sick pack), but i'm very thin as you can check in this pic and i have almost no belly. strangely i have more definition in my obliques and i dont exercise them that much.

Also do you think i can start bulking now? or should i need to lose more body fat % i guess i'm maybe 13/14 % BF i don't know for sure.

http://pt.netlog.com/_VirtualInsanity_/photo/photoid=8242250#photos

thanks in advance
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Triple T

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Squats and Deads work my abs good, I have the outer shape of the six pack already.

Also, stick to weighted ab excercises...they work soo much better. Like wieghted sit-ups/crunches/etc.
For me...body weight excercises have almost no effect, except for a select few:

Another ab excercise that works for me is to hang from a chin-up bar (or anything actually) and just do leg raises, up and down, while keeping yourself from swinging.
The raising of the legs works the abs, and trying to stabalize yourself(keeping from swinging back and forth) works them even harder.


By the looks of your pic, your almost there. Keep working them :up:
 

ryannath

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Someone mentioned the ab wheel works well, and it's true! It does work well. I have an ab wheel. I don't think they make them anymore though, but you can make your own. You need two lawnmower tires, two hex bolts and something else. You can look on google.

Something else that works that sounds corny is The Ab Lounge. It works the upper and lower abs very well.

The Ab wheel and Ab Lounge work the abs much better than sit ups and crunches.
 

shaunuk

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A guy I know does a ghetto ab wheel. Put some plates of each side of a barbell...that's a ghetto ab wheel ;) It works pretty well
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EFFORT

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shaunuk said:
A guy I know does a ghetto ab wheel. Put some plates of each side of a barbell...that's a ghetto ab wheel ;) It works pretty well
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