I continue time and time and time again to screw up hot girls that I meet. It goes like this...
I meet them, we hit it off, we start to see each other, we sleep together, I go crazy reaching out ALL THE TIME and leave nothing for surprise or mystery, they start to get distant, they bounce.
The current girl I met about 3 weeks ago, is really cute. Fun as hell, we slept together, I know she really likes me. The first two weeks I reached out a lot and just recently she started retracting so I completely flipped the script and dialed back how much I reach out, how my texts were etc. She is now reaching out to me the past two days.
I am being told by my buddy that I need to let the entire weekend go by and not reach out. It is driving me crazy that I can't reach out because although I really want to I KNOW FOR A FACT she will go running because it looks like I have nothing else going on.
Besides telling to just play it cool, or spin other plates etc. Could someone please explain in detail how letting a day or two go by without reaching out, not always being available, not always responding right away etc works to having the chick want me more and want to reach out and see me more???
Thank you! Set my azz straight once and for all. I am playing it perfectly right now and just don't wanna F up anymore ever!!
I meet them, we hit it off, we start to see each other, we sleep together, I go crazy reaching out ALL THE TIME and leave nothing for surprise or mystery, they start to get distant, they bounce.
The current girl I met about 3 weeks ago, is really cute. Fun as hell, we slept together, I know she really likes me. The first two weeks I reached out a lot and just recently she started retracting so I completely flipped the script and dialed back how much I reach out, how my texts were etc. She is now reaching out to me the past two days.
I am being told by my buddy that I need to let the entire weekend go by and not reach out. It is driving me crazy that I can't reach out because although I really want to I KNOW FOR A FACT she will go running because it looks like I have nothing else going on.
Besides telling to just play it cool, or spin other plates etc. Could someone please explain in detail how letting a day or two go by without reaching out, not always being available, not always responding right away etc works to having the chick want me more and want to reach out and see me more???
Thank you! Set my azz straight once and for all. I am playing it perfectly right now and just don't wanna F up anymore ever!!