Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Please Define Why Evolution Created "Love"

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Please Define Why Evolution Created "Love".

I have my own opinion. I want to see what my peers have to say. I believe once a solid definition is found... It will make me and everyone else who understands it more self aware.

In case anyone doesn't understand my question, I'll try to define it further.

Evolution created a physical and mental attachment we know as LOVE, but why? Is it divine? Is it an illusion? Does our culture pressure us into being monogamist relationship as well as being in love? What are the weaknesses and strengths of -being in love-. etc...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It came about through group evolution. Most people think of evolution as individuals against each other but Darwin also talks about group evolution.

Picture this: you got tribe 1 and tribe 2.

Tribe 1 has a genetic disposition towards love. Therefore offspring are raised by both the father and the mother. Father is there to protect the offspring, which would give it a better chance for survival.

Tribe 2 doesn't have the same genetic trait. Only the mother raises the kids, and she can't fight off predators by herself. Her offspring die.

As a result Tribe 2 dies off, and you're left with Tribe 1.
Fast forward hundreds of thousands of years... and i'm royally pissed with mother nature.
 

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This is not a puzzle....has already been answered... first what a lot of people consider "love" is that initial bond i.e. honeymoon stage they get with a person.. It is actually there for about average of 1.5 years. That is the optimal length of time that will allow for offspring to survive. You can be the biggest stud, but if the women or their children dont survive, then your genes will die out from the gene pool.

LTR are based not on "love", but on compatibility (i.e. you like to do similar things, think the same and hence enjoy spending time together)...After while your so used to doing/spending time together, you cant live without the person...

Case closed, next question...
 

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Tribe 1: The tribes people don't sleep arround as much. People are more selective about who they sleep with.

Tribe 2: They sleep with anyone and end up diluting their tribe. Everyone becomes stupider.
 

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i think its in our basic instincts.

i think the evolution of it came as our mind developed more.

Cause you can see that many animals do have the same kind of connection. Weather its a dog crying for his owner, or a mother and her pups.... it does exists there.

while other species seem to show no affection at all,

i think it is something that would have evolved prolly before the modern human evolved.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fenderules

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the development of a working conciousnous just brought it to a new level
 
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Evolution does not "create" - God CREATES!!!! Wake up kid - The Matrix has you!!!
 

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He is correct. Evolution is BS. Ever heard the saying God is love. God gave us the ability to love each other the way he loves us. Thats my understanding.
 
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