"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Please Define Why Evolution Created "Love"

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Please Define Why Evolution Created "Love".

I have my own opinion. I want to see what my peers have to say. I believe once a solid definition is found... It will make me and everyone else who understands it more self aware.

In case anyone doesn't understand my question, I'll try to define it further.

Evolution created a physical and mental attachment we know as LOVE, but why? Is it divine? Is it an illusion? Does our culture pressure us into being monogamist relationship as well as being in love? What are the weaknesses and strengths of -being in love-. etc...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It came about through group evolution. Most people think of evolution as individuals against each other but Darwin also talks about group evolution.

Picture this: you got tribe 1 and tribe 2.

Tribe 1 has a genetic disposition towards love. Therefore offspring are raised by both the father and the mother. Father is there to protect the offspring, which would give it a better chance for survival.

Tribe 2 doesn't have the same genetic trait. Only the mother raises the kids, and she can't fight off predators by herself. Her offspring die.

As a result Tribe 2 dies off, and you're left with Tribe 1.
Fast forward hundreds of thousands of years... and i'm royally pissed with mother nature.
 

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This is not a puzzle....has already been answered... first what a lot of people consider "love" is that initial bond i.e. honeymoon stage they get with a person.. It is actually there for about average of 1.5 years. That is the optimal length of time that will allow for offspring to survive. You can be the biggest stud, but if the women or their children dont survive, then your genes will die out from the gene pool.

LTR are based not on "love", but on compatibility (i.e. you like to do similar things, think the same and hence enjoy spending time together)...After while your so used to doing/spending time together, you cant live without the person...

Case closed, next question...
 

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Tribe 1: The tribes people don't sleep arround as much. People are more selective about who they sleep with.

Tribe 2: They sleep with anyone and end up diluting their tribe. Everyone becomes stupider.
 

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i think its in our basic instincts.

i think the evolution of it came as our mind developed more.

Cause you can see that many animals do have the same kind of connection. Weather its a dog crying for his owner, or a mother and her pups.... it does exists there.

while other species seem to show no affection at all,

i think it is something that would have evolved prolly before the modern human evolved.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the development of a working conciousnous just brought it to a new level
 
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Evolution does not "create" - God CREATES!!!! Wake up kid - The Matrix has you!!!
 

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He is correct. Evolution is BS. Ever heard the saying God is love. God gave us the ability to love each other the way he loves us. Thats my understanding.
 
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