"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Please critique my diet.

eminence

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Note, keep in mind my goal is to gain MASS, and as much as possible. Currently I am weighing in at about 130 lbs, I am 5'8 1/2. On non workout days I cut out the Ultrafuel, my postworkout drink...which is 400 less calories and 100 less carbs. I will be training 3-4 days a week. + items are what I mix in with that main meal.

Meal A 9:00 AM

  • 5 Large Whole Eggs(375 Calories, 30G Protein, 5 Carbs, 25G Fat)
+1 Slice of Cheese(50 Calories, 4G Protein, 1 Carb, 3G Fat

  • 2 Packs of Low Sugar Quaker Oatmeal(240 Calories, 8G Protein, 48 Carbs, 4G Fat, 6G Fiber)

  • 1 banana(105 Calories, 1G Protein, 27G Carbs, 3G Fiber)


Total Calories: 770, Protein: 43G, Carbohydrates: 81G, Fat: 32G, Fiber 9G


Meal B 12:00 PM

  • 6 oz Tuna(180 Calories, 39G Protein, 1.5G Fat)
+4 Slices Wheat Bread(244 Calories, 8G Protein, 44Carbs)
+1 Tbsp Mayonnaise(90 Calories, 10G Fat)

  • 1 Tbsp Udo's Choice oil(132 Calories, 14G Fat)

  • 1 Green Apple(81 Calories, 21G Carbs, 5G Fiber)

Total Calories: 727, Protein: 47G, Carbohydrates: 65G, Fat: 25.5G, Fiber: 5G.

Meal C 3:00 PM(Post Workout Drink Included, my workout schedule varies)

  • 7oz Chicken Breast, no skin(245 Calories, 56G Protein, 7G Fat)

  • 1.5 Cup Brown Rice (327 Calories, 6G Protein, 69G Carbs, 3G Fat, 15G Fiber)

  • 2 Cup Spinach (80 Calories, 10G Protein, 10G Carbs, 28G Fiber)

  • 1 Serving Ultra Fuel - Post workout shake(400 Calories, 100 Carbs)

Total Calories: 1052, Protein: 72 G, Carbohydrates: 179G, Fat: 10G, Fiber 43G

Meal D 5:30 PM


  • Big 100 Colossal Bar(400 Calories, 31G Protein, 45G Carbs, 11G Fat, 2G Fiber)

Total Calories: 400, Protein: 31G, Carbohydrates: 45G, Fat:11G, Fiber: 2G

Meal E 8:30 PM

  • 6oz Lean Ground Beef(450 Calories, 42G Protein, 30G Fat)
+2oz Pasta(210 Calories, 8G Protein, 40G Carbs, 1G Fat)

  • 1.5 Cup Broccoli(36 Calories, 4.5G Protein, 6.5G Carbs, 13.5G Fiber)

Total Calories: 696, Protein: 54.5, Carbohydrates: 47.5, Fat: 31G, Fiber: 13.5G

Meal F 11 PM
  • 1 Cup Cottage Cheese(160 Calories, 36G Protein, 6G Carbs, 2G Fat)
  • 2 tbsp Udo's Choice oil (132 Calories, 14G Fat)

Total Calories: 424, Protein: 36G, Carbohydrates:6G, Fat: 30G)

I am also taking a few vitamins & supplements spread out between meals:

Vitamin C 1000mg's 3 times daily
1 tsp Glutamine 3 times daily
1/2 serving creatine pre-workout and the other 1/2 post workout.
Multi-vitamin once daily.

I'm not sure if I should cut out the cottage cheese at the end of the night to take ZMA instead, since i'm focused on gaining mass I thought i'd skip ZMA the first few months.

Anyways...

Grand Total Calories: 4069, Protein: 283.5G, Carbohydrates: 423.5G, Fats: 139.5G, Fiber: 72.5G
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warboss Alex

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Looks good but add some protein powder to your ultra fuel postworkout.

No need for glutamine in such a small dose either
 

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eminence said:
I'm not sure if I should cut out the cottage cheese at the end of the night to take ZMA instead, since i'm focused on gaining mass I thought i'd skip ZMA the first few months.
Take the zma like an hour before the cottage cheese. I'm assuming you're worried about the calcium affecting the zinc.
 

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looks good, you'll gain on that assuming your deadlifting and squating
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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