"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Please change the forum colors back to blue

ER!C L!VE

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The blue backgroud with blue font is so much easier on the eyes. It's been proven that people feel more comfortable with the color blue. Men in blue suits have been proven to seem more 'trustworthy', IBM's colors are blue, hence it's nickname "Big Blue".

This tan/tan color scheme has actually deterred me from coming to the site.

This is one vote to change back the color scheme.

My 2cents.

Ooops. This post was meant for the AE forum.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ER!C L!VE

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Yes. I'm not as computer literate as you, stud. However, I thank you for the tip. :cheer:
 

Weak_Game

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mods pls delete this thread because i dont want this forum to look like the bb.com forum

leave it as is or change it completly

thanks in advance ur pal
 

The Former Priest

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ER!C L!VE said:
The blue backgroud with blue font is so much easier on the eyes. It's been proven that people feel more comfortable with the color blue. Men in blue suits have been proven to seem more 'trustworthy', IBM's colors are blue, hence it's nickname "Big Blue".

This tan/tan color scheme has actually deterred me from coming to the site.

This is one vote to change back the color scheme.

My 2cents.

Ooops. This post was meant for the AE forum.
I Agree ...Make blue
Blue for men
Pink for HBs
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Weak_Game said:
mods pls delete this thread because i dont want this forum to look like the bb.com forum

leave it as is or change it completly

thanks in advance ur pal
Yes same here!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ShyRyder

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Naw I like the tan colour. It makes me feel safe and calm and the urges to flame other DJ's are fading. :rock:
 

cant think of a user name

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I think someone else has mentioned this previously, but all you have to do to change the colours is go to the bottom left of the screen, click the little arrow and change to whatever color scheme you want.
 

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Hmmm, when the forum was restarted, it was blue, right?
Well unless you cannot follow directions above, you'll have to live with tan.
 

Vincent

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Mine's blue :)

At the bottom of the page, in the drop down menu, select default. Then it'll be blue.
 

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I liked the format before the fourm was updated. It was a more simple, home like feel with the hb7 with the brown hair at the top of the page. That is my type of girl and I miss her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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whatever you do dont try to go tigra. That has to be the ugliest sh1t I've ever seen.
 

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The color doesnt bother me - but I CAN BARELY SEE WHICH THREADS I REPLIED TO. Thos icons are way too small.
 

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The tan color you see now (or originally, those who switched over...) is the same color SoSuave was when it was first a forum. Funny, when Allen changed it to blue, people wanted the tan back...
 

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I changed it back to blue. I forget how, but I think there's an option on the user control panel.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cant think of a user name said:
I think someone else has mentioned this previously, but all you have to do to change the colours is go to the bottom left of the screen, click the little arrow and change to whatever color scheme you want.
Awsome, thank you.
 
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