"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Please change the forum colors back to blue

ER!C L!VE

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The blue backgroud with blue font is so much easier on the eyes. It's been proven that people feel more comfortable with the color blue. Men in blue suits have been proven to seem more 'trustworthy', IBM's colors are blue, hence it's nickname "Big Blue".

This tan/tan color scheme has actually deterred me from coming to the site.

This is one vote to change back the color scheme.

My 2cents.

Ooops. This post was meant for the AE forum.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ER!C L!VE

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Yes. I'm not as computer literate as you, stud. However, I thank you for the tip. :cheer:
 

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mods pls delete this thread because i dont want this forum to look like the bb.com forum

leave it as is or change it completly

thanks in advance ur pal
 

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ER!C L!VE said:
The blue backgroud with blue font is so much easier on the eyes. It's been proven that people feel more comfortable with the color blue. Men in blue suits have been proven to seem more 'trustworthy', IBM's colors are blue, hence it's nickname "Big Blue".

This tan/tan color scheme has actually deterred me from coming to the site.

This is one vote to change back the color scheme.

My 2cents.

Ooops. This post was meant for the AE forum.
I Agree ...Make blue
Blue for men
Pink for HBs
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Weak_Game said:
mods pls delete this thread because i dont want this forum to look like the bb.com forum

leave it as is or change it completly

thanks in advance ur pal
Yes same here!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Naw I like the tan colour. It makes me feel safe and calm and the urges to flame other DJ's are fading. :rock:
 

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I think someone else has mentioned this previously, but all you have to do to change the colours is go to the bottom left of the screen, click the little arrow and change to whatever color scheme you want.
 

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Hmmm, when the forum was restarted, it was blue, right?
Well unless you cannot follow directions above, you'll have to live with tan.
 

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Mine's blue :)

At the bottom of the page, in the drop down menu, select default. Then it'll be blue.
 

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I liked the format before the fourm was updated. It was a more simple, home like feel with the hb7 with the brown hair at the top of the page. That is my type of girl and I miss her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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whatever you do dont try to go tigra. That has to be the ugliest sh1t I've ever seen.
 

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The color doesnt bother me - but I CAN BARELY SEE WHICH THREADS I REPLIED TO. Thos icons are way too small.
 

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The tan color you see now (or originally, those who switched over...) is the same color SoSuave was when it was first a forum. Funny, when Allen changed it to blue, people wanted the tan back...
 

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I changed it back to blue. I forget how, but I think there's an option on the user control panel.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cant think of a user name said:
I think someone else has mentioned this previously, but all you have to do to change the colours is go to the bottom left of the screen, click the little arrow and change to whatever color scheme you want.
Awsome, thank you.
 
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