"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The blue backgroud with blue font is so much easier on the eyes. It's been proven that people feel more comfortable with the color blue. Men in blue suits have been proven to seem more 'trustworthy', IBM's colors are blue, hence it's nickname "Big Blue".

This tan/tan color scheme has actually deterred me from coming to the site.

This is one vote to change back the color scheme.

My 2cents.

Ooops. This post was meant for the AE forum.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes. I'm not as computer literate as you, stud. However, I thank you for the tip. :cheer:
 
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mods pls delete this thread because i dont want this forum to look like the bb.com forum

leave it as is or change it completly

thanks in advance ur pal
 
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ER!C L!VE said:
The blue backgroud with blue font is so much easier on the eyes. It's been proven that people feel more comfortable with the color blue. Men in blue suits have been proven to seem more 'trustworthy', IBM's colors are blue, hence it's nickname "Big Blue".

This tan/tan color scheme has actually deterred me from coming to the site.

This is one vote to change back the color scheme.

My 2cents.

Ooops. This post was meant for the AE forum.
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I Agree ...Make blue
Blue for men
Pink for HBs
 
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Weak_Game said:
mods pls delete this thread because i dont want this forum to look like the bb.com forum

leave it as is or change it completly

thanks in advance ur pal
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Yes same here!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Naw I like the tan colour. It makes me feel safe and calm and the urges to flame other DJ's are fading. :rock:
 
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I think someone else has mentioned this previously, but all you have to do to change the colours is go to the bottom left of the screen, click the little arrow and change to whatever color scheme you want.
 
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Hmmm, when the forum was restarted, it was blue, right?
Well unless you cannot follow directions above, you'll have to live with tan.
 
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Mine's blue :)

At the bottom of the page, in the drop down menu, select default. Then it'll be blue.
 
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I liked the format before the fourm was updated. It was a more simple, home like feel with the hb7 with the brown hair at the top of the page. That is my type of girl and I miss her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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whatever you do dont try to go tigra. That has to be the ugliest sh1t I've ever seen.
 
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The color doesnt bother me - but I CAN BARELY SEE WHICH THREADS I REPLIED TO. Thos icons are way too small.
 
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The tan color you see now (or originally, those who switched over...) is the same color SoSuave was when it was first a forum. Funny, when Allen changed it to blue, people wanted the tan back...
 
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I changed it back to blue. I forget how, but I think there's an option on the user control panel.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cant think of a user name said:
I think someone else has mentioned this previously, but all you have to do to change the colours is go to the bottom left of the screen, click the little arrow and change to whatever color scheme you want.
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Awsome, thank you.
 
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