"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Please B1tch slap me !

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Reto

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I just need to be slapped bad...

Ok. My Ex girl friend breaks up with her current BF about a month ago. The guy she dumped me for. So, I console her. We hook up and are together nearly 24/7. The whole time, she keeps reminding me that she does not want to be serious. That she's still hooked on him. OK.

Well, last week she starts distancing herself from me. Which pi$$es me off. So, I confront her and asked if she met some one or if she was going back to the BF. Of course she get's pi$$ed and denies it. I'm like ok. I believe you. (Not really).

Anyway, that was friday. I haven't called. She hasn't called. We normally talk at least twice a day. So, I guess she's gone.

So, lesson learned. Do not get back with an ex that dumped you. Do not spend 24/7 with someone who isn't over thier last BF. Don't even get with someone who is not over thier Ex.

One thing I do have to say though, I've had more sex in the last month than I have all year. Even did some pretty freaky stuff...

Live and learn...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe I'm still in Chump mode but I don't see the problem. OK you had to put up with some whining ****, but then got loads of (freaky) sex.

The main thing is you're not chasing her. I'd just move on. If she gets back in touch start talking about wanting to do the freaky stuff again.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Reto, I don't know how old you are and I do not mean this as a slight to you or Alpine, but maybe when you get older you'll understand that sex (even if its freaky) may not be worth constant whining, b1tching, complaining or whatever from a woman. I'll put it like this, once you get your DJ skills on high, you'll be able to get sex from women who won't drive you nuts with that bull. Don't get me wrong, there isn't anything wrong with great sex, but it's even better when you don't have to put up with a lot of crap.

Just something to consider...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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