"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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please advice from players needed

Samanta

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sorry DJ but i need some advice from men? im soo hurt? i met a guy during party he is a artist singer . he asked my number and we dated. So i am virgin of 35 years old because im more religious now and didnt meet the rigth guy in the past and i didnt want to give up like that. so he figured out i was a virging and didnt smoke drink nor drugs and had a good job as a broker and unmarried no kids etc. He said he sees a future with me introduced me to his enotire family wanted to meet mine and didnt push for sex. He hardly touched me , if he did it was kissing forehead cheekc and pecks on the lips and hugs.

Anyways every time after performing he approached girls and asked for their insta. I todl him before it hurts me but he didnt respected it. I confronted him and he said he was his friends cousins, i approached the girl she said he met her during his performance? girl sended him the print screens of my convo. He was upset and said i should change my suspsicious ways , and i said he was causing it... so he choose to end things because it would be t toxic relationship?

did this guy even have feelins for me why did he dumped me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BackInTheGame78

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You were never anything more than a FWB or Fvck buddy to him.

He had no interest in any type of relationship with you other than sex.
 

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Then why do you care?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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