"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Playing the game against women

Arsis

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What do you do against a woman who can play the game as well as you?

I know what I do, I am just curious what everyone else does.

I want the stories/moves of those who fail and succeed. We learn from our mistakes do we not?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MisterMcGee

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personally the ones that bother me are the ones who have NO GAME at all
 

trd323

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If a woman can banter and play with you and knowing it is all about the mating dance that very few people can do; then I say game on, these are the ones that we all wait for. Imagine kobe playing with lebron thats more exciting for him than scoring 100 points against a high school kid;
 

Arsis

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Very good point! For some reason that never crossed my mind... : /
 

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Do not, I repeat DO NOT attempt to play games with women.

Think; remember back in elementary school when girls were scheming on boys and we boys thought they had cooties?

Guess what these girls were doing? Learning to play games.

While we were playing with our matchbox cars and bat mobiles, they were learning how we as men operate and how to push our buttons.

We as men can very rarely beat women at their own game.

The only way we beat them is by not playing them at all. If we take ourselves out of their games as a whole, they have no way of defeating us, so to them.. we've won.

Don't play the jealousy cards. Don't attempt to f*ck with their heads.

Live your life and ignore her games. This f*cks with a chicks head infinitely more than any 'game' a man can concoct.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Arsis

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WC2 said:
Do not, I repeat DO NOT attempt to play games with women.

Think; remember back in elementary school when girls were scheming on boys and we boys thought they had cooties?

Guess what these girls were doing? Learning to play games.

While we were playing with our matchbox cars and bat mobiles, they were learning how we as men operate and how to push our buttons.

We as men can very rarely beat women at their own game.

The only way we beat them is by not playing them at all. If we take ourselves out of their games as a whole, they have no way of defeating us, so to them.. we've won.

Don't play the jealousy cards. Don't attempt to f*ck with their heads.

Live your life and ignore her games. This f*cks with a chicks head infinitely more than any 'game' a man can concoct.

Agreed, but in all technicality isnt that playin the game? you remove yourself from her game and put her into yours. Its always a game, always will be. The men that know how to put her into our game and control it are the ones who come out on top aka DJ's am I right?
 

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I think what we're getting at here is that we like a girl who is smart or intelligent enough to bring out the best in us. If a girl is too easy, then it doesn't really inspire you; it doesn't feel as meaningful. However, if the girl plays too many games, then you get a headache and it's over (either you move on or you fall for her tactics).

I believe the solution is just doing what you want to do and listen to your gut. Usually if something is up, your gut will tell you. If she wants you to go fetch her something, why would you obey? You two aren't dating! At this point you owe her nothing! Of course, decline in a C+F way.
 
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