You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WC2 said:Do not, I repeat DO NOT attempt to play games with women.
Think; remember back in elementary school when girls were scheming on boys and we boys thought they had cooties?
Guess what these girls were doing? Learning to play games.
While we were playing with our matchbox cars and bat mobiles, they were learning how we as men operate and how to push our buttons.
We as men can very rarely beat women at their own game.
The only way we beat them is by not playing them at all. If we take ourselves out of their games as a whole, they have no way of defeating us, so to them.. we've won.
Don't play the jealousy cards. Don't attempt to f*ck with their heads.
Live your life and ignore her games. This f*cks with a chicks head infinitely more than any 'game' a man can concoct.