"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Playing the game against women
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MisterMcGee
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WC2
Master Don Juan
Think; remember back in elementary school when girls were scheming on boys and we boys thought they had cooties?
Guess what these girls were doing? Learning to play games.
While we were playing with our matchbox cars and bat mobiles, they were learning how we as men operate and how to push our buttons.
We as men can very rarely beat women at their own game.
The only way we beat them is by not playing them at all. If we take ourselves out of their games as a whole, they have no way of defeating us, so to them.. we've won.
Don't play the jealousy cards. Don't attempt to f*ck with their heads.
Live your life and ignore her games. This f*cks with a chicks head infinitely more than any 'game' a man can concoct.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
WC2 said:Do not, I repeat DO NOT attempt to play games with women.
Think; remember back in elementary school when girls were scheming on boys and we boys thought they had cooties?
Guess what these girls were doing? Learning to play games.
While we were playing with our matchbox cars and bat mobiles, they were learning how we as men operate and how to push our buttons.
We as men can very rarely beat women at their own game.
The only way we beat them is by not playing them at all. If we take ourselves out of their games as a whole, they have no way of defeating us, so to them.. we've won.
Don't play the jealousy cards. Don't attempt to f*ck with their heads.
Live your life and ignore her games. This f*cks with a chicks head infinitely more than any 'game' a man can concoct.
Agreed, but in all technicality isnt that playin the game? you remove yourself from her game and put her into yours. Its always a game, always will be. The men that know how to put her into our game and control it are the ones who come out on top aka DJ's am I right?
The Comeback Kid
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I believe the solution is just doing what you want to do and listen to your gut. Usually if something is up, your gut will tell you. If she wants you to go fetch her something, why would you obey? You two aren't dating! At this point you owe her nothing! Of course, decline in a C+F way.