Hey guys, quick question. Theres this girl that im considering going after and we've been texting and whatnot the past couple weeks. i've asked her twice if she would like to grab lunch or just to hang out but she always seems to be busy. i kinda get the feeling that shes playing hard to get and i know thats not how it should be. i dont wanna come off as needy or a "wussy" but i really wanna spend some time with her so i can figure out if shes worth it or not. how can i get her out without coming off as needy? thanks
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
playing hard to get?
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Ignore her
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
you're gonna have to ignore her for at least 5 days or so then out of the blue tell her you're going somewhere and she should join you. Dont ask her to join you TELL her to. It's more commanding.
Ollie
Don Juan
If she tries texting you and knows you're around just give her like one sentence answers saying you're busy and leave it at that. Dont you initiate anything at all tho. Girls like attention and pulling it away makes them jealous once they're used to getting it