"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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playing hard to get and playing it well

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yeah so i played hard to get with this one chick and it worked very well if you know what i mean...

basically i would get really close to her like we were going to start making out but I'd go past her or stop or something like, basic things for turning her on, that kind of stuff.

what are some creative things that everyone else has got?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If they don't say please, turn away.

I something like this, and I just turned away and paid attention to the movie (it was a movie date) and she grabbed my head, turned it towards her, and started making out with me again. was a turnon for both of us :D
 
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Playing "hard to get" can sometimes be advantageous, but be careful. As long as you're interested in her, then if the ***** wants to make out, make out. If you come across as being a "player" with "game" then you may as well write DOUCHEBAG across your forehead.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Make her qualify

Ask her why she is different from other girls. (AND IF SHE GIVE A GOOD RESPONSE TELL HER THAT YOU LIKE THAT ABOUT HER AND ALSO TELL HER SHE SEEMS LIKE SOME ONE WORTH GETTING TO KNOW MORE AND YOU LIKE THAT ABOUT HER). Peace dude, i would love to hear a reply later.
 
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gmillar said:
Playing "hard to get" can sometimes be advantageous, but be careful. As long as you're interested in her, then if the ***** wants to make out, make out. If you come across as being a "player" with "game" then you may as well write DOUCHEBAG across your forehead.
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Are you saying that acting like you know ropes too well is going to turn girls off?
 
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Ok JOHN PAUL the thing is acting like you know the ropes will let you seem interesting to a girl but being real ****y about it will probably turn her off.
 
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Any other questions?????

No problem dude, any other questions you have just ask me cool. PEACE OUT.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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