"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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playing hard to get and playing it well

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yeah so i played hard to get with this one chick and it worked very well if you know what i mean...

basically i would get really close to her like we were going to start making out but I'd go past her or stop or something like, basic things for turning her on, that kind of stuff.

what are some creative things that everyone else has got?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If they don't say please, turn away.

I something like this, and I just turned away and paid attention to the movie (it was a movie date) and she grabbed my head, turned it towards her, and started making out with me again. was a turnon for both of us :D
 
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Playing "hard to get" can sometimes be advantageous, but be careful. As long as you're interested in her, then if the ***** wants to make out, make out. If you come across as being a "player" with "game" then you may as well write DOUCHEBAG across your forehead.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Make her qualify

Ask her why she is different from other girls. (AND IF SHE GIVE A GOOD RESPONSE TELL HER THAT YOU LIKE THAT ABOUT HER AND ALSO TELL HER SHE SEEMS LIKE SOME ONE WORTH GETTING TO KNOW MORE AND YOU LIKE THAT ABOUT HER). Peace dude, i would love to hear a reply later.
 
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gmillar said:
Playing "hard to get" can sometimes be advantageous, but be careful. As long as you're interested in her, then if the ***** wants to make out, make out. If you come across as being a "player" with "game" then you may as well write DOUCHEBAG across your forehead.
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Are you saying that acting like you know ropes too well is going to turn girls off?
 
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Ok JOHN PAUL the thing is acting like you know the ropes will let you seem interesting to a girl but being real ****y about it will probably turn her off.
 
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Any other questions?????

No problem dude, any other questions you have just ask me cool. PEACE OUT.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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