"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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aspasp

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So basically i spent the weekend with this chick for some high school stuff and i thought we were hitting it off she invited me to one of her parties and ****. But now, i sent a couple texts and an email and she isn't responding...what's up with this? Should i just move on from this one?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sodbuster

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No don't call her out. give her some time,then call again. You don't need to blow up her phone-reeks of desperation
 

Joe Stud

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relax. let her now come to you. DJ's dont call women out on stuff like that because they dont care. they have plenty of other opportunities...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You think you were hitting it off because she invited you to one of her parties?

Unless the party is in her pants (pun intended) I dont see how you can think this. I think you may have got excited over nothing in fact. Loads of other guys will be there, she cant of hit it off with all of them!
 
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