"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aspasp

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So basically i spent the weekend with this chick for some high school stuff and i thought we were hitting it off she invited me to one of her parties and ****. But now, i sent a couple texts and an email and she isn't responding...what's up with this? Should i just move on from this one?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sodbuster

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No don't call her out. give her some time,then call again. You don't need to blow up her phone-reeks of desperation
 

Joe Stud

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relax. let her now come to you. DJ's dont call women out on stuff like that because they dont care. they have plenty of other opportunities...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You think you were hitting it off because she invited you to one of her parties?

Unless the party is in her pants (pun intended) I dont see how you can think this. I think you may have got excited over nothing in fact. Loads of other guys will be there, she cant of hit it off with all of them!
 
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