“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Playing devils advocate on Stage 5 clingers

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What is the worst experience you've had with a Stage 5 clinger? Guys are supposed to be so afraid of them.

However, what is the main downside of having your own personal slave?
 

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Really NO ONE here has had a bad Stage 5 clinger experience? lol

Is no one on this forum actually dating real life women or do you all just "vet" the clingers out early and never have to deal with it?

I'm bringing this up because it seems like the stage 5 is only a problem when you are not that into them. They can sense it and it makes them more possessive and controlling. But when you like them back, its almost like having your own sex slave. I'm sleeping with a really clingy girl right now and I'm actually having a blast with it.
 

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Really NO ONE here has had a bad Stage 5 clinger experience? lol

Is no one on this forum actually dating real life women or do you all just "vet" the clingers out early and never have to deal with it?

I'm bringing this up because it seems like the stage 5 is only a problem when you are not that into them. They can sense it and it makes them more possessive and controlling. But when you like them back, its almost like having your own sex slave. I'm sleeping with a really clingy girl right now and I'm actually having a blast with it.
I'd love to have a lot of sex slaves that would even let me live with 2 of them together and bang two together too:D on my todolist
 

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My initial reaction was that it gets annoying after awhile. @deesade covered the gamut of behavior very well.

What especially resonated with me was his mention of how the clinginess is actually her way of satiating her anxiety. Very true.

Be careful
 
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What especially resonated with me was his mention of how the clinginess is actually get way of satiating her anxiety. Very true.

Be careful
Yes, when you come across this type of woman, something is off with her…
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Seems to me when the clinging gets too extreme or ridiculous, you just have a talk. If that doesn't work, you end things and problem solved.

I think clingers only get totally out of hand when they are allowed to get away with lesser offenses earlier because of their weak partner.
 

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I think clingers only get totally out of hand when they are allowed to get away with lesser offenses earlier because of their weak partner.
On the other hand though, you can’t really control another persons behavior on a long term basis…
 

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They become a nuisance after a few weeks. Needy as hell, they ask why won’t you call me ten times a day, they try to set up dates months in advance, very demanding, trying to rush you into a relationship. The list goes on and on. I was recently banging a stage five clinger, got tired, the sex wasn’t worth it. I bailed I suggest you do the same.
 

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They become a nuisance after a few weeks. Needy as hell, they ask why won’t you call me ten times a day, they try to set up dates months in advance, very demanding, trying to rush you into a relationship. The list goes on and on. I was recently banging a stage five clinger, got tired, the sex wasn’t worth it. I bailed I suggest you do the same.
Yeah she is already planning things months in advance. I'm sure it will eventually get old, but for now I'm enjoying the great sex and Godly worship.

I've got a strong enough frame to set boundaries and I never do anything unless I want to. Not afraid of making her mad because she's a clinger after all. Worst case scenario she stops clinging lol.

Obviously if she shows any psycho behavior I'll drop her with no hesitation. Won't feel bad about it either.
 

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They lose their own identity in the relationship because they have poor boundaries and poor self esteem. That poor self esteem is where the anxiety and neurosis and failure to have boundaries comes from.

At first it can be heady, especially if they are attractive & the sex is great...but they are also the ones capable of going Fatal Attraction on you if you aren't careful.

Tread with care & maintain boundaries...she won't.
 

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I'm bringing this up because it seems like the stage 5 is only a problem when you are not that into them. They can sense it and it makes them more possessive and controlling. But when you like them back, its almost like having your own sex slave. I'm sleeping with a really clingy girl right now and I'm actually having a blast with it.
Bro wondering what’s your point?
 

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Yeah but it's not good for you to take advantage to much if unless you're a sociopath. You will look back on your actions one day.
Are you some kind of blue piller?

Sociopath is a strong word to throw around on such a dumb whim.
 

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What is the worst experience you've had with a Stage 5 clinger? Guys are supposed to be so afraid of them.

However, what is the main downside of having your own personal slave?
Its rare to have stage 5 clingers these days. Women get waayy to much attention to be clingers on one specific guy for too long. Even the crazy ones can spread their clinginess out to like 10 guys.
 

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Its rare to have stage 5 clingers these days. Women get waayy to much attention to be clingers on one specific guy for too long. Even the crazy ones can spread their clinginess out to like 10 guys.
They'll cling if they believe you are the highest VALUE man they can get at the moment.

Just because loads of desperate guys are chasing most women.. that doesn't mean those men are attractive to her. Its like if you have a bunch of obese women offering to be your sex slave, it doesn't really do anything for you lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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