"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Playing an extreme attention *****

Acq

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Mission: to fvck an extreme attention ***** who is pissing me off. She does not know me that well yet, but is lusting attention and is probably wondering why she is not getting it from me, which begins to make her angry. How to play her ? I was thinkinh about humuliating her slightly and to not give her any other attention at all might be the right approach. Any thoughts ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Szyzzlin

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Acq said:
Mission: to fvck an extreme attention ***** who is pissing me off. She does not know me that well yet, but is lusting attention and is probably wondering why she is not getting it from me, which begins to make her angry. How to play her ? I was thinkinh about humuliating her slightly and to not give her any other attention at all might be the right approach. Any thoughts ?
Obvious answr is don't give her any attention. But, with all cases use your best judgement and play it by ear.
 

MisterMcGee

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I've been told many times that not giving them attention just takes you off their radar - they dont really care.
 
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