"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Playing an extreme attention *****

Acq

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Mission: to fvck an extreme attention ***** who is pissing me off. She does not know me that well yet, but is lusting attention and is probably wondering why she is not getting it from me, which begins to make her angry. How to play her ? I was thinkinh about humuliating her slightly and to not give her any other attention at all might be the right approach. Any thoughts ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Szyzzlin

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Acq said:
Mission: to fvck an extreme attention ***** who is pissing me off. She does not know me that well yet, but is lusting attention and is probably wondering why she is not getting it from me, which begins to make her angry. How to play her ? I was thinkinh about humuliating her slightly and to not give her any other attention at all might be the right approach. Any thoughts ?
Obvious answr is don't give her any attention. But, with all cases use your best judgement and play it by ear.
 

MisterMcGee

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I've been told many times that not giving them attention just takes you off their radar - they dont really care.
 
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