"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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playin hard to get?

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ok thers this chick in 1 of my classes thatve been givin me the cold ***** treatment for awhile. i dunno if she's playin hard to get or just plain doesn't like me. we used to talk a few weeks earlier, but lately lessons are just quiet except for me askin questions about the work.
i made effort to make conversation, but it doesnt lead anywhere, she just responds with short answers, so i guess i stopped trying. i still say hi though, but she just says it in a quiet voice (i see her around her friends n she aint quiet), or sumtimes when shes feeling nice she doesnt even answer.

can anyone tell me what the traits of a chick playing hard to get are?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stronger frame wins, just totally ignore her and eventually(well probably anyway) one of you are going to give in and talk to the other, just try not to make the person who gives in you. She is playing hard to get and if you stop giving her attention shes going to try to get your attention back.
 
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you didn't really ask this, but im telling you anyways

the reason shes giving you this treatment is because she gave you an opening of some kind and you didn't make a move

now she's hurt and probably mad too. it'll pass eventually, just do your best
 
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hmm an opening you say... none really comes into mind. but then again when it comes to openings/signs im pretty lost :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well im prolly gonna have to sit with her for the next year or so, so it's hard not to think about it. if it were any other class I'd be off the table so quick, but here im stuck.
 
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don't worry there is a solution

talk to her, make her laugh, over time she will find her attraction for you again

the hint may have been extremely subtle, or not even a hint at all. but to her subconcious mind she gave you a chance and you didn't take it

just make sure your vibing, then ask her if she wants to hang out on the weekend or something

edit: almost forgot DON'T LET HER FRIENDZONE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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