playin hard to get?

[qotsa]

ok thers this chick in 1 of my classes thatve been givin me the cold ***** treatment for awhile. i dunno if she's playin hard to get or just plain doesn't like me. we used to talk a few weeks earlier, but lately lessons are just quiet except for me askin questions about the work.
i made effort to make conversation, but it doesnt lead anywhere, she just responds with short answers, so i guess i stopped trying. i still say hi though, but she just says it in a quiet voice (i see her around her friends n she aint quiet), or sumtimes when shes feeling nice she doesnt even answer.

can anyone tell me what the traits of a chick playing hard to get are?

 

[Alpha_Animal]

Stronger frame wins, just totally ignore her and eventually(well probably anyway) one of you are going to give in and talk to the other, just try not to make the person who gives in you. She is playing hard to get and if you stop giving her attention shes going to try to get your attention back.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

you didn't really ask this, but im telling you anyways

the reason shes giving you this treatment is because she gave you an opening of some kind and you didn't make a move

now she's hurt and probably mad too. it'll pass eventually, just do your best

 

[qotsa]

hmm an opening you say... none really comes into mind. but then again when it comes to openings/signs im pretty lost

 

[Michael Chief]

she really aint worth ur time. why are you still thinking about her?

 

[qotsa]

well im prolly gonna have to sit with her for the next year or so, so it's hard not to think about it. if it were any other class I'd be off the table so quick, but here im stuck.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

don't worry there is a solution

talk to her, make her laugh, over time she will find her attraction for you again

the hint may have been extremely subtle, or not even a hint at all. but to her subconcious mind she gave you a chance and you didn't take it

just make sure your vibing, then ask her if she wants to hang out on the weekend or something

edit: almost forgot DON'T LET HER FRIENDZONE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[qotsa]

ill try that when i get back to school...