"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Playful Opener/Routine...Feedback

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sandman6991

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Let me get everyone's opinion on this opener/routine...I used it today...but before I tell what happened...I want to see what everyone thinks of it. It has to be used in a fun way, with lots of confidence and a smile (like anything, really).

Me: Hey!
Her: Hey!
Me:You see my friends over there? *Point to friend, or friends*
Her: Yeah
Me: Well, they bet me twenty bucks that I wouldn't come talk to you and get your number.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Her: I hope you didn't bet each of them twenty bucks, you'd be out of about $100! :kick:
 
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It's a bit cliche, it also says you're not confident enough to talk to her unless you're in a bet. Still, if you've used it and it works for YOU then that's cool. It's probably a good ice breaker for a less confident/shy girl.
 
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